As women, we put a lot of time, care, and effort into looking our best and making a great impression whenever we walk out the front door.
You buy the best products available for your skin, but sometimes, your skin just doesn't seem to want to cooperate.
You have to ask yourself; is it your skin or is it your products?
I’m going to help you out here!
Below are 5 things to avoid in your self-care regimen, especially if you have sensitive skin and what you should be doing instead.
1. Know the Difference
So many people think they have one thing but may have something else which is why you should go to the dermatologist. There is a difference between Dry Skin, Skin Allergies, and Skin Sensitivity.
Dry skin, or Xerosis, is skin that is dry, white, and flaky (or "ashy"). It's most common on the arms and legs and can make other skin conditions worse.
Skin allergies are seen - redness, swelling, inflammation, bumps, etc. and are most common on the scalp, face, hands, and feet.
Skin sensitivity is felt - dryness, itchy, burning, tingling, etc. and can be felt on the face, arms, hands, and legs. The best way to determine if you have Xerosis (dry skin), sensitive skin, or skin allergies, is to be tested by a dermatologist.
2. Avoid Hot Baths/Showers
I know sucks right? Taking baths or showers in really hot water can feel really good and seem very relaxing; however, hot water encourages evaporation from the pores which leads to excessive drying of the skin.
Instead, bathe in tepid to warm water. It may take some getting used to, but in the long run, it will reduce the amount of water loss and cause less heat damage to the top outer layer of your skin. However, if you absolutely cannot get on board with warm water (trust me I totally get it!), then using a rich, creamy moisturizer (not lotion) immediately after your bath or shower while your skin is damp, not wet, is paramount and non-negotiable.
3. Avoid Over-Exfoliating
Using a loofah and/or exfoliating daily is damaging to your skin. It can remove too many layers of skin causing more damage.
Instead, bathe daily with a soft washcloth to gently cleanse your skin, and exfoliate no more than 2 times a week.
4. Avoid Deodorant and Antibacterial Detergent Bars
Deodorant bars and antibacterial cleansers such as Zest, Dial, and Irish Spring are made with detergents that can be too harsh for your skin. They also contain skin irritating highly concentrated fragrances.
Cleansers that are "antibacterial" usually contain chemicals that kill all bacteria, even the good bacteria your body needs to protect and heal itself.
Look for products that have more natural ingredients you’re familiar with and know you're not allergic to.
Additionally, look for products that have fragrance listed towards the bottom of the list. The lower on the list, the smaller the concentration in the final product, and the lower the chances of irritation.
5. Use a Humidifier at Night
In the winter months or if you live in dry heat, the cold air is much drier and harsher on your skin, especially if you live in a more arid climate like Nevada, California, or Arizona. Unfortunately, there's nothing you can do about Mother Nature, and moving to a tropical island may not be a feasible option, so to help combat dryness, invest in a humidifier and run that baby while you sleep.
Your skin will drink up the moisture in the air to help replace what Mother Nature snatched away, and if your hair is dry, she can get in on the moisture action too ... win, win!
At Sweet Surrender, we understand the many hats women wear; the love, joys, and fears women carry. We understand you put the needs of your family, friends, and loved ones before your own. But most importantly, we understand, you need an outlet; you need something that's truly yours and yours alone.
Where is the one place you can truly be alone with yourself, your thoughts, and your feelings? The bathroom, right? Your bathroom is your sanctuary. When that door closes, it's an unspoken rule (or should be) to not disturb or disrupt what's going on in there unless the house is on fire, and even then they better make sure it really is burning down.
Sweet Surrender is a small business that cares about your self care and your personal care. We help you create experiences that help you develop and shape your own personal self-care journey.
Whether you need to relax and unwind and let go of daily stress and tension, or you need a boost to get you motivated and get you going, Sweet Surrender is there with you every step of the way.
Tiwana
I’ve used body polish and scrubs before, I love that you put instructions on the label. I didn’t have to dip and scoop to pull it out, this is it! I could immediately tell the difference in my hands.
It wasn’t lumpy and messy. I didn’t have to clean my sink afterwards and I wasn’t left standing in hard clumps of sugar in my shower.
Ashleigh
So I am a body butter convert thanks to Sweet Surrender. I didn’t know what my skin was missing until I used this body butter. It is smooth, keeps the moisture in, and gives me a beautiful glow, seriously!
Or maybe this is just what skin looks like when it is polished and buttered. My skin is super dry and I was always ashy! Using this body butter accompanied by the body polish has COMPLETELY changed my skin! Ya girl is a smooth and sexy goddess!
Dr. Monica Bickerstaff
I love the Green Tea & Cucumber soap! I used it to wash my face and I’m impressed with the gentle, smooth feeling and the amazing lather! LOVE IT! And, it’s VERY gentle for my face’s sensitive skin. I absolutely LOVE this soap Joy!!!
Annie
I love the body butter and bath bombs. I took a bath and used the bath bomb and when I got out I put on my body butter and I felt so relaxed. Even in my flannel pajamas, I felt so pretty!
I'm Joy, the founder and heart beat behind Sweet Surrender.
I’ve suffered from sensitive skin all my life, so I know all too well how it feels to be in constant search mode for a product that will truly meet your needs without causing irritation.
Growing up, my mom was a huge fan of “Zest” soap. At the time, it was supposed to be the best out there, but it left my skin so dry, tight, itchy, and irritated. Let me tell you, no amount of lotion would give me the relief I so desperately needed. She then switched over to Ivory because supposedly it was “so pure it floats”. Well, it floated me to dry, itchy misery!
I was never able to find products that nourished and moisturized my skin. I was always dry, itchy, and yes, ashy! That is until I took matters into my own hands.
In 2015, I began researching natural remedies to treat my damaged hair and scalp after suffering a chemical burn from a perm. Using chemical-laden products to treat a chemical burn on my scalp just didn’t make sense to me; I knew in my heart there had to be a better alternative.
Not finding what I needed, I discovered a soap and cosmetics studio and began taking classes. While becoming certified in formulating bath and body care products, I was able to fine-tune my recipe and developed what is now my infamous body butter!
It’s nourishing, moisturizing and versatile. Although I created it specifically for my scalp, I love it on my body, hands, and face! It’s a simple, yet amazing recipe that's hydrating and perfect for all skin types!
I’ve been a certified soap maker for over seven years now, and I just can’t see myself doing anything else. My family and I have very sensitive skin so making beautiful, high quality soaps and other natural bath, body, and self- care products to share with my family and yours is not only my passion but my obsession!
I am truly blessed to have been able to discover my passion and turn it into a business. I love being able to help women develop a self-care regimen that not only allows you to get the “Me Time” you need but provides the moisturizing nourishment your skin needs to combat and prevent dry, irritated, and ashy skin, so that you'll always feel your absolute beautiful best!